Monday, September 05, 2005

[10:39:25 PM] [N]!cK---- t: hey
[10:39:25 PM] [N]!cK---- t: u angry issit?
[10:39:45 PM] )) HENRY (( : yes
[10:40:28 PM] )) HENRY (( : the butt thing was too much
[10:40:38 PM] [N]!cK---- t: then how now?
[10:41:12 PM] )) HENRY (( : i and jia hui i think no more frends le
[10:41:47 PM] [N]!cK---- t: and can u safely assume?
[10:42:13 PM] )) HENRY (( : can
[10:42:23 PM] )) HENRY (( : 9i msged her le
[10:42:28 PM] [N]!cK---- t: then?
[10:43:19 PM] )) HENRY (( : she acted like nth happened lor
[10:43:33 PM] )) HENRY (( : but u all shout so loud, u think she nv
hear?
[10:47:00 PM] [N]!cK---- t: actually
[10:47:06 PM] [N]!cK---- t: dun u think u thin too much
[10:49:06 PM] [N]!cK---- t: it was all harmless
[10:49:07 PM] )) HENRY (( : in wad sense?
[10:49:18 PM] [N]!cK---- t: it from the start we aim to attk u and
her
[10:49:26 PM] [N]!cK---- t: we could have do so in a cruder way
[10:49:32 PM] [N]!cK---- t: but what we want was laughter
[10:49:38 PM] [N]!cK---- t: u may thjink it is cruel
[10:49:47 PM] [N]!cK---- t: but dun u think u did things that were
similar to that
[10:49:51 PM] [N]!cK---- t: like to us
[10:50:56 PM] )) HENRY (( : did the frendship of u and some girl
break?
[10:51:38 PM] [N]!cK---- t: did we at first b4 even joking aim to
break ur frenship
[10:52:19 PM] [N]!cK---- t: if that the way u put it,
[10:52:34 PM] [N]!cK---- t: it is then our responsibility to clear
both ur doubts
[10:52:49 PM] )) HENRY (( : now that the frendship is broken
[10:52:53 PM] )) HENRY (( : wad u think u shld do?
[10:53:08 PM] [N]!cK---- t: we must/try explain to her
[10:53:30 PM] )) HENRY (( : and what u all did even after leaving the
canteen?
[10:53:38 PM] [N]!cK---- t: we stopped
[10:53:41 PM] [N]!cK---- t: let me ask u
[10:53:46 PM] [N]!cK---- t: issit just me and daniel
[10:53:49 PM] [N]!cK---- t: or ur classmate
[10:53:55 PM] [N]!cK---- t: that u r traeting them like this
[10:53:56 PM] [N]!cK---- t: or else
[10:53:58 PM] [N]!cK---- t: this wont be fair
[10:54:10 PM] )) HENRY (( : corne, wilson, u and to some extend
daniel
[10:54:22 PM] [N]!cK---- t: so what did wilson and cornie get?
[10:54:26 PM] [N]!cK---- t: same treatment like us?
[10:54:32 PM] )) HENRY (( : going to
[10:54:51 PM] [N]!cK---- t: why us first?
[10:54:51 PM] )) HENRY (( : u and corne are the worst
[10:55:03 PM] )) HENRY (( : cos u let out the butt thing
[10:55:27 PM] )) HENRY (( : imagine what a girl would do if u hears
this
[10:55:41 PM] [N]!cK---- t: so why the hell so uptight over it
[10:55:48 PM] )) HENRY (( : imagine what a girl would do if she hears
this?
[10:55:48 PM] [N]!cK---- t: if jia hui gonna leave u bcoz of this
[10:55:52 PM] [N]!cK---- t: then what is she to u
[10:56:20 PM] )) HENRY (( : what if the person in this are u and mc
[10:56:32 PM] )) HENRY (( : and i say the exact same thing
[10:56:40 PM] )) HENRY (( : how would u feel??
[10:56:53 PM] [N]!cK---- t: i feel perfectly alright
[10:56:54 PM] [N]!cK---- t: cause i know
[10:57:03 PM] [N]!cK---- t: she wont becoz of u and leave me
[10:57:07 PM] [N]!cK---- t: that what i call frens
[10:57:30 PM] )) HENRY (( : so now what do u think i shld do and what
are u going to do?
[10:57:38 PM] [N]!cK---- t: u shd ask her
[10:57:48 PM] [N]!cK---- t: why is she leaving u becoz of a harmless
joke
[10:57:50 PM] [N]!cK---- t: for me
[10:57:58 PM] [N]!cK---- t: i need to explain to her the situation
[10:58:00 PM] [N]!cK---- t: fair?
[10:59:17 PM] )) HENRY (( : so are u gonna be apologetic about it?
[10:59:43 PM] [N]!cK---- t: no
[10:59:49 PM] [N]!cK---- t: cause when u disturb me and mc
[10:59:49 PM] )) HENRY (( : okay
[10:59:50 PM] )) HENRY (( : good
[10:59:51 PM] [N]!cK---- t: were u?
[11:00:02 PM] )) HENRY (( : shall shout nxt time
[11:00:03 PM] )) HENRY (( : thankz
[11:00:12 PM] )) HENRY (( : thankz for ur opinons
[11:00:21 PM] [N]!cK---- t: no problem
[11:01:08 PM] [N]!cK---- t: u r unreasonable.
[11:01:21 PM] )) HENRY (( : yah
[11:01:23 PM] )) HENRY (( : thank you
[11:02:27 PM] )) HENRY (( : when i disturb u about mc, did she know
about it?
[11:02:46 PM] [N]!cK---- t: noe
[11:02:53 PM] )) HENRY (( : if so im sorry
[11:03:10 PM] [N]!cK---- t: u dun have to
[11:03:16 PM] )) HENRY (( : nvm
[11:03:22 PM] )) HENRY (( : i feel that i did smth wrong
[11:03:26 PM] [N]!cK---- t: u nv
[11:03:32 PM] [N]!cK---- t: it was out of pure fun
[11:04:47 PM] [N]!cK---- t: am i right?
[11:05:06 PM] )) HENRY (( : but fun got limit
[11:05:26 PM] [N]!cK---- t: ya
[11:05:28 PM] [N]!cK---- t: fun got limit
[11:05:33 PM] [N]!cK---- t: obviously u haven reach yet
[11:05:42 PM] [N]!cK---- t: cause i know if u were to disturb more of
me and mc
[11:05:44 PM] [N]!cK---- t: things gonna happen
[11:05:47 PM] [N]!cK---- t: u haven reached
[11:05:57 PM] [N]!cK---- t: today wat happened tested ur treshold for
jokes
[11:06:26 PM] [N]!cK---- t: it is not abt being sorry or not
[11:06:32 PM] )) HENRY (( : okok
[11:06:32 PM] [N]!cK---- t: it is abt being able to explain to u
[11:06:37 PM] [N]!cK---- t: my starting point was harmless
[11:06:39 PM] )) HENRY (( : wadevr kay?
[11:06:54 PM] )) HENRY (( : if u dun feel like talking alrdy
[11:06:59 PM] [N]!cK---- t: no
[11:07:00 PM] [N]!cK---- t: i wanna talk
[11:07:04 PM] [N]!cK---- t: i dun want affect us
[11:07:08 PM] [N]!cK---- t: eh
[11:07:14 PM] [N]!cK---- t: if let joke disturb our frenship
[11:07:18 PM] [N]!cK---- t: dun u think is stupid
[11:07:26 PM] [N]!cK---- t: stupiD*
[11:07:31 PM] )) HENRY (( : since u dun feel that's anything wrong, i
have nothing to say alrdy
[11:08:07 PM] [N]!cK---- t: there is wrong
[11:08:15 PM] [N]!cK---- t: but not wrong to the point i am doing u
injustice
[11:08:56 PM] )) HENRY (( : if u think that way, i also cannot do nth
[11:09:11 PM] [N]!cK---- t: that means u can do something?
[11:09:39 PM] )) HENRY (( : type wrongly
[11:09:48 PM] )) HENRY (( : if u think that way, there's nth i can do
[11:10:12 PM] [N]!cK---- t: u can do
[11:10:15 PM] [N]!cK---- t: something
[11:10:25 PM] [N]!cK---- t: it is to clarify totally with me wat u
want me to do
[11:10:28 PM] [N]!cK---- t: look
[11:10:36 PM] [N]!cK---- t: if it is just "i am sorry" u r seeking
[11:10:57 PM] [N]!cK---- t: then i iwll give it
[11:11:07 PM] )) HENRY (( : no need
[11:11:09 PM] )) HENRY (( : meaningless
[11:11:14 PM] [N]!cK---- t: yup
[11:11:16 PM] [N]!cK---- t: exactly
[11:11:21 PM] [N]!cK---- t: so get it over with
[11:12:44 PM] [N]!cK---- t: u were there when i need help
[11:12:49 PM] [N]!cK---- t: why u wanna be this way now
[11:12:53 PM] [N]!cK---- t: becoz of jia hui?
[11:13:32 PM] )) HENRY (( : if u all say i like her only i wont be
angry
[11:13:38 PM] )) HENRY (( : the butt part is really too much
[11:14:37 PM] [N]!cK---- t: then i am sorry
[11:14:45 PM] [N]!cK---- t: i rather diminish my pride then lose u
[11:16:27 PM] )) HENRY (( : nvm laaa
[11:16:34 PM] )) HENRY (( : i think jia hui more important
[11:16:50 PM] )) HENRY (( : cos u all like that say, my reputation
nvm, but hers...
[11:16:58 PM] [N]!cK---- t: ha
[11:17:01 PM] [N]!cK---- t: turn one round
[11:17:03 PM] [N]!cK---- t: it is her
[11:17:11 PM] )) HENRY (( : ?
[11:17:42 PM] [N]!cK---- t: u r concern of her
[11:18:16 PM] )) HENRY (( : yes
[11:18:29 PM] [N]!cK---- t: then i nuthin say
[11:18:32 PM] [N]!cK---- t: i make my point
[11:18:58 PM] )) HENRY (( : wad tok u?
[11:19:21 PM] [N]!cK---- t: i already paid u what i can
[11:19:25 PM] [N]!cK---- t: the rest is u already
[11:19:55 PM] )) HENRY (( : so i explain myself to her?
[11:20:41 PM] [N]!cK---- t: with our help
[11:21:35 PM] )) HENRY (( : k
[11:21:46 PM] [N]!cK---- t: settled?
[11:21:52 PM] [N]!cK---- t: everthing fine now?
[11:21:56 PM] [N]!cK---- t: btwn us?
[11:22:13 PM] )) HENRY (( : kk
[11:24:31 PM] )) HENRY (( : just stop the butt thing frm now on

Denial, Pride, Pushing the balme, Saying im in the wrong instead...

What would Jesus do?
Being a christian:"Dear friends, I urge you, as aliens and strangers in the world, to abstain from sinful desires, which war against your soul. 12Live such good lives among the pagans that, though they accuse you of doing wrong, they may see your good deeds and glorify God on the day he visits us."

Instead of being angry and unforgiving, i humbly obeyed and forgave my spiritual brother even though it's against my human nature.

He told us to forgive and forget....However, it's hard. I can only forgive for the blow to me is traumatic. I lost a frend because of this incident.....