Wednesday, August 30, 2006

i was visitng my frend's blog when smth struck me.it was an entry about how many frends in ur life would lay their lives for you.when i 1st saw the qns,NONE..not even my closest frend would do that for me.as we just look at this blankly, we feel sad and unloved.but after thinking further.would u lay ur life for any of your frends.there was an urge to say, YES! I would! but imgaine in a situation where either u survive or your frend survives.how many of us would rather have urself live?

in a different situation,i assume u would die for someone.but in this situation such that u would die for a person who do not love u but u love,however when it comes to a person who loves u, wouldnt lay ur life for him.isnt this sad?so issit our desire for a person, or love that makes us sacrifice our lives for another?does this show that we dont care ppl's feelings to us?

when we say we love a person, does this love hav a limit? if there's a limit, issit love anymore?

ppl say they will slash their wrists for their lover.but is this out of love? or a threat to make their lover stay?

when thought about it, i felt ashamed of myself.im a selfish person.yet am i the only one or everybody is the same? who can bravely stand up and declare that u would die for a frend? i guess nobody can really do that.....